What does RELATIONSHIP mean? Learning to exercise one’s inner strength can be one of the toughest experiences ever. What does it mean to become a part of someone else’s life? Why do people want relationships so bad? How can someone mix his/her existence with someone else when he/she is not whole?
When one realizes that being a part of someone else’s life is not embracing, nor feeding, the original agreement, what happens? Society has pumped a fairytale vision of relationships into us so much that we can’t function as individuals. From the chains on the ankles between 2 slaves during slavery, to the chains of the mind through messages and expectations, we can be dragged to a point of non-existence.
What is a relationship? What is a healthy relationship? When a relationship needs a tune-up, what “services” should we order? How do you know if the services being ordered are the right ones? How do you know when the entity needs to be knocked down and/or rebuilt?
Fear of hurting the other person, fear of embarrassment, fear of letting go, fear of letting extended family go, fear of the future, fear of not fulfilling the “story book” life that has been fed to us with story lines, religious beliefs, and much more can cause a person to go into a panic and state of delusion and depression. Complex, complex, complex…so, are those the reasons why people cheat?
Or, are the reasons more simple? Simple, as in enough to only want to fulfill sexual gratifications? Simple as in greed for more than one person, or greed in keeping control of money, houses, cars, and way of life?
Hmmmm…what is a relationship???
Living…Loving Life…Education for Life!!!
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